The usual sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach returns. I feel incredible excitement about the possibility of sparks flying. Living my whole adult life as a single manĮvery time I meet someone new, the same thing happens. And you can watch the video version of this article below. I’ll share the 4 types of people according to attachment theory below, but first I’ll explain the problem I was facing. I knew this as soon as I came across “attachment theory” in an article by Mark Manson which describes the nature of emotional attachment between humans, and the four types of people in relationships. The brutal truth I discovered is that the problem is me, not the women I’ve been dating. There are no easy solutions, despite what the law of attraction gurus will tell you. The way to attract the perfect partner into your life is completely different than what most people believe. I now know this approach to life is total bullsh*t. I believed that all I had to do was keep on enjoying life, focus on my passion, identify the qualities I was looking for and soon enough I would attract the perfect partner. I used to believe the reason was because I hadn’t met the right person yet. I’ve been single for nearly all of my adult life, am still single, and I finally figured out what the problem is.
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